April 22, 2015
April 13, 2015
Sitting on the tram on my way home today I started thinking about some of the people I have met on public transport. More specifically the people I've connected with.
When I was younger living in Sydney I would travel 90 minutes each way to work on the train. I met some interesting people. One man I named TL, Train Lover. It all started with a friendly smile across the carriage. He then started sitting next to me, one day I was reading a book about vaginas and he leant over and asked me which picture looked most like mine. We'd hold hands as we traveled home each afternoon. There may have even been some kind of boob/crotch touching but I can't really remember. It never went any further, I'm not really sure what happened.
We then had Sonny, who said hello to me one day and started chatting about footy. We would walk home together. He asked me out and I declined. He did come over one night and we kissed but that was it. We weren't well suited. He did pop up on dating sites again and again but he just didn't light my fire.
I'd love to hear if anyone else has similar stories.
PEACE AND LUST
April 12, 2015
Someone said to me that he would like me to blog about good oral technique in relation to cunnilingus. Now I can only speak for myself and what I personally enjoy. I am a woman who enjoys direct clitoral stimulation. I love love love having my clitoris sucked. If you go down on me and do this you will know I love it because I will most likely grab your head and grind myself against your face. I know many of the women I know do not enjoy as much direct stimulation and prefer to have a man circle around the clit just lightly skimming against it.
Now onto fingers, use them! Press then against the Gspot which also stimulated the clit from inside. I am a fan of numerous fingers being that I'm into fisting. You will be able to judge how many fingers you will need by how wet she is and how she responds as you work your way up. If she is a woman who doesn't get very wet if you use to many fingers you will hurt and possibly tear her.
Don't be afraid to mix it up, different paces, different directions with your tongue. If she moans, if her hips move then you're onto a winner. Be sure to tease, licking and sucking labia. I personally don't mind some use of teeth (gently & sparingly) but be very mindful not every woman will want teeth ANYWHERE near their delicate little love zone.
PEACE AND LUST